{"id":7641,"date":"2012-12-12T03:30:07","date_gmt":"2012-12-12T01:30:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/?p=7641"},"modified":"2012-12-12T03:30:07","modified_gmt":"2012-12-12T01:30:07","slug":"le-pouvoir-du-tres-bien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/?p=7641","title":{"rendered":"Le pouvoir du \u00ab\u00a0tr\u00e8s bien\u00a0\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apr\u00e8s avoir parl\u00e9 du pouvoir du \u00ab\u00a0OUI\u00a0\u00bb, je voulais aborder une nuance qui est le pouvoir du \u00ab\u00a0bravo\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0tr\u00e8s bien\u00a0\u00bb ou tout autre forme verbale de f\u00e9licitation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Durant les formations \u00e0 la philosophie de Maria Montessori que je donne, nous abordons r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement cette question. En effet, la r\u00e8gle \u00e0 respecter que j’explique est de ne rien dire \u00e0 l’enfant quand il a fini son travail.<\/p>\n

Cela surprend tout le monde, parents comme enseignants. Pourquoi ne rien dire \u00e0 l’enfant ?<\/p>\n

Le gaver de mots insignifiants<\/strong>, r\u00e9p\u00e9titifs<\/strong>, charg\u00e9s de jugements<\/strong> ne fait que l’habituer<\/strong> \u00e0 recevoir ces mots vides de sens. Le jour o\u00f9 il ne les re\u00e7oit plus ou pas, le d\u00e9stabilise. Nous abimons la motivation<\/strong> interne des enfants en agissant ainsi.<\/p>\n

Que dire alors ?
\nQuand un enfant a fini un dessin, il faut sourire, dire \u00ab\u00a0oui\u00a0\u00bb, lui demander \u00ab\u00a0Es-tu content de ton dessin ?\u00a0\u00bb, montrer notre int\u00e9r\u00eat sinc\u00e8re, encourager avec le langage du corps.<\/p>\n

Le pouvoir du \u00ab\u00a0tr\u00e8s bien\u00a0\u00bb et du \u00ab\u00a0bravo\u00a0\u00bb \u00e0 tout instant est destructif<\/strong> et ne permet pas \u00e0 l’enfant de tendre vers l’auto-satisfaction, l’ind\u00e9pendance<\/strong> pourtant esp\u00e9r\u00e9es pour nos enfants.<\/p>\n

Maria Montessori ne cherchait pas \u00e0 convaincre les adultes, seuls les enfants l’int\u00e9ressaient. Elle avait \u00e9t\u00e9 conquise par la force int\u00e9rieure (horme<\/strong>) qui guide l’\u00eatre.<\/p>\n

Elle avait r\u00e9compens\u00e9 les enfants avec des bonbons et avait observ\u00e9 que les enfants les mettaient dans leur poche. On reparlera de tout ceci. Je vous souhaite de belles journ\u00e9es d’hiver.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Apr\u00e8s avoir parl\u00e9 du pouvoir du \u00ab\u00a0OUI\u00a0\u00bb, je voulais aborder une nuance qui est le pouvoir du \u00ab\u00a0bravo\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0tr\u00e8s bien\u00a0\u00bb ou tout autre forme verbale de f\u00e9licitation. Durant les formations \u00e0 la philosophie de Maria Montessori que je donne, nous abordons r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement cette question. En effet, la r\u00e8gle \u00e0 respecter que j’explique est de ne […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[254,255,256,257,1],"tags":[519,520,343],"class_list":["post-7641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-06-12-mois","category-12-18-mois","category-18-24-mois","category-24-36-mois","category-quotidien","tag-bonbon","tag-bravo","tag-recompense"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pm9U2-1Zf","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7641"}],"version-history":[{"count":21,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7663,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641\/revisions\/7663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}