{"id":4034,"date":"2011-08-05T02:05:46","date_gmt":"2011-08-05T00:05:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/?p=4034"},"modified":"2011-08-05T02:05:46","modified_gmt":"2011-08-05T00:05:46","slug":"lestime-de-soi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/?p=4034","title":{"rendered":"L&rsquo;estime de soi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/img_4594.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4037 aligncenter\" title=\"img_4594\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/img_4594.jpg?resize=300%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/img_4594.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/img_4594.jpg?w=320&amp;ssl=1 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Dans son livre \u00ab\u00a0<em>L&rsquo;estime de soi<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb Nathaniel Branden expose le fait que les parents posent des <strong>obstacles<\/strong> \u00e0 la <strong>croissance de l&rsquo;estime de soi<\/strong> d&rsquo;un enfant lorsqu&rsquo;ils :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>font passer le message que l&rsquo;enfant n&rsquo;est pas \u00ab\u00a0ASSEZ\u00a0\u00bb;<\/li>\n<li>r\u00e9primandent l&rsquo;enfant qui exprime des sentiments \u00ab\u00a0inacceptables\u00a0\u00bb;<\/li>\n<li>ridiculisent ou humilient l&rsquo;enfant;<\/li>\n<li>laissent croire que les pens\u00e9es ou les \u00e9motions de l&rsquo;enfant n&rsquo;ont aucune valeur ou importance;<\/li>\n<li>tentent de contr\u00f4ler l&rsquo;enfant par la culpabilit\u00e9 ou la honte;<\/li>\n<li>surprot\u00e8gent l&rsquo;enfant et, par cons\u00e9quent, font obstruction \u00e0 l&rsquo;apprentissage normal et \u00e0 la croissance de l&rsquo;autonomie;<\/li>\n<li>\u00e9l\u00e8vent un enfant sans aucune r\u00e8gle, donc sans structure de soutien, ou alors avec des r\u00e8gles qui sont contradictoires, d\u00e9routantes, oppressantes, ce qui, dans chaque cas, inhibe la croissance normale;<\/li>\n<li>nient la perception de la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 d&rsquo;un enfant et encouragent implicitement cet enfant \u00e0 douter de son esprit;<\/li>\n<li>traitent des faits \u00e9vidents comme \u00e9tant ir\u00e9els, perturbant ainsi le sens de la rationalit\u00e9 de l&rsquo;enfant;<\/li>\n<li>terrorisent un enfant par la violence physique ou la menace de celle-ci, inculquant ainsi la peur panique comme caract\u00e9ristique durable au coeur de l&rsquo;enfant;<\/li>\n<li>traitent l&rsquo;enfant comme un objet sexuel;<\/li>\n<li>enseignent \u00e0 l&rsquo;enfant qu&rsquo;il est mauvais, indigne ou p\u00e9cheur par nature.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dans son livre \u00ab\u00a0L&rsquo;estime de soi\u00a0\u00bb Nathaniel Branden expose le fait que les parents posent des obstacles \u00e0 la croissance de l&rsquo;estime de soi d&rsquo;un enfant lorsqu&rsquo;ils : font passer le message que l&rsquo;enfant n&rsquo;est pas \u00ab\u00a0ASSEZ\u00a0\u00bb; r\u00e9primandent l&rsquo;enfant qui exprime des sentiments \u00ab\u00a0inacceptables\u00a0\u00bb; ridiculisent ou humilient l&rsquo;enfant; laissent croire que les pens\u00e9es ou les [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-quotidien"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pm9U2-134","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4034","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4034"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4034\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4044,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4034\/revisions\/4044"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blogbbmontessori.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}